Well here's the thing though, if you use the gray water to flush the black tank then the outlet needs to be larger than the inlet so that the water will flush through, picking up any debris and carrying it along. If they are the same size the water will pool in the black tank and you lose the flushing action. It just becomes another drain instance. If the outlet is larger the water will flush through without slowing down. And a 2" outlet from the gray tank will drain that tank pretty quickly. Both 2 and 3" valves are common sizes so not much need to carry spare parts.Jim